Things About Writing I Wish I Knew When I Was Younger

Five vital lessons I learned along the way

Carly J Hallman
4 min readApr 14, 2021
Photo by Nick Morrison on Unsplash

Many writers and creatives are obsessed with time travel. The potential of going back and making different choices naturally appeals to our imaginations and our very way of working. In a sense, we write in time machines — we can always scroll up in a document or flip back a few pages in our notebooks and completely change how a scene plays out. As creators of worlds, we possess limitless choices, and we get to experiment with the consequences without any real consequences. It’s all play. Nothing is set in stone until we’re happy with it. We reign supreme.

While all of that might be true for the worlds on the page, it’s not true for the world in which we actually live. There are plenty of things I wish I would’ve known and plenty of things I wish I would’ve done differently, especially in my creative life. In this reality, the past is the past. There’s no going back. All the same, I’ve found it helpful to take stock of the lessons I’ve picked up along the way. They’ve helped me as I’ve moved forward, and maybe they’ll help you too.

1. There are no timelines: As humans, we like time. Time gives us a sense of security and a useful way of measuring the seasons of our lives. However, as the saying goes, we plan, god laughs. My younger…

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Carly J Hallman

Just another 30-something writing about the internet, nostalgia, culture, entertainment, and life. Author, screenwriter, copywriter. www.carlyjhallman.com